What We Carry Retreat

March 13–15, 2026
A fully funded retreat in Northern California

An Invitation

The What We Carry Retreat, March 13-15th 2026, is an intimate, fully funded gathering for people living in the U.S. whose lives have been shaped by war and who seek connection, healing and community.

This retreat brings together civilians, wartime allies, and U.S. veterans whose lives were shaped by the same wars—to spend time in shared space, in nature, and thoughtful conversation. It is not a debate or equivalency, it is about human connection.

We come together to listen, to reflect, and to explore what we carry—personally, collectively, and across difference.

Why We're Gathering

Decisions about war are often made far from its consequences, by people whose daily lives are largely untouched by those choices. Veterans and civilians carry the impact in lasting ways—different, but enduring.

This retreat offers space to slow down, be heard, and be in conversation with others who understand—sometimes from very different paths—what it means to live with the impacts of war. It is a place to speak what feels true for you, to slow down and connect.

This retreat will also help inform What We Carry, a documentary theater project honoring lives touched by war. At its heart, it is a prayer for peace. Any sharing connected to the project happens with care, consent, and ongoing communication. There is no obligation to participate beyond what feels right for you.

Who This Retreat Is For

You may be a good fit if:

  • You live in the U.S. and your life was changed by war or by U.S. military presence in your home country

  • You are a U.S. veteran whose service has shaped your life

  • You are open to being in community with others across difference

  • You value reflection, listening, and shared humanity

The Setting

The retreat takes place at a retreat center in Northern California, a beautiful coastal environment surrounded by land and sea. Much of our time will be spent outdoors, weather permitting, with space for rest, walking, and quiet reflection.

All travel, lodging, and meals are covered.

What to Expect

  • A small, carefully held group

  • Shared meals and time in nature

  • Group conversations and creative practices

  • Space for rest, reflection, and connection

Applying

If this invitation resonates, we welcome you to apply. FILL OUT THE APPLICATION HERE

Questions

If you have any questions, please email: Polina@crescentmoontheaterproductions.com